Most of this is good advice! The only thing that sticks out to me is Myth #3. I don't agree that 90% of problems in relationships are unsolvable because if I was in a relationship with someone and could only agree with them 10% of the time I think I would be very unhappy. In part, relationships are a great meeting of the minds. =) Some understandings of life have to compliment one another for the whole thing to work.